Recognising a genuinely low offer versus your own expectations
Before countering, confirm the offer is genuinely below market rate for the role, location, and your experience level, using real comparative data, not just your own hoped-for number. Countering based on solid market evidence is far more effective and credible than countering simply because the figure feels lower than you personally wanted.
How to respond professionally
Respond with genuine enthusiasm for the role first, then state clearly that the offer is below what you were expecting based on your research, backed by a specific, reasonable target figure and the market evidence behind it. Avoid ultimatums or emotional language, and frame the conversation as a collaborative discussion about reaching a fair number, not a confrontation.
Example script
"Thank you again for the offer, I'm genuinely excited about this role. Based on my research into similar positions at comparable companies, and my specific experience with [relevant skill], I was expecting something closer to [figure]. Is there flexibility to move toward that?" This stays warm, specific, and evidence-based throughout.
How to prepare
Gather genuine market data in advance from sources such as salary surveys, recruiter conversations, and comparable job listings, so your counter is grounded in evidence rather than a number chosen arbitrarily. Decide your realistic minimum acceptable figure before the conversation, so you can negotiate confidently without needing to calculate it under pressure in the moment.